wow. That last post sure was provacative. something bound to make people want to slap me. Well this sure is fun. who doesnt love a bit of controversy.
Now here in India the moooost famous debate of them all is the love marriage arranged marriage debate. Its everywhere. its the most famous of them all. Everywhere girls ask each other that question. This is a really common debate competition topic all over (usually in these cases the guys will be noticing the girls who support love marriage)
So personally i feel i should voice my views to this. I support love marriage. and you aaaall know the reasons. "better being with someone who you know, how can you marry a stranger, love is beautiful, go thundercats!" same shit everyone say. and naturally ill be repeating it. Trust me you dont want to be hearing that again.
Then again i thought to myself why do people get attracted to arranged marriage? Again this is from a males point of view. aI cant say a girls point of view because 1.only a girl can say that properly and 2. im scared of feminists.
What many people dont know is finding a life partner or a soul mate is bloody hard. For the universe to make all cogs work for the 2 of them to meet up and then the fights and then the moment of love to bloom. Yes it is beautiful and worth it but it is pretty tiring. Dont believe me? The show "how i met your mother" that kind of proves my point.
There are many successful billionaires who are still not satisfied with their life because they havent found a person to love. The parents will feel bad and will do their best. Theyll try introducing the son to girls and hope that works out. They cant like get a girl and force her to marry him. i mean noone is that dumb right? hahaha.....oh
*Informercial background music* it is in these moments that we bring to you the arranged marriage!!
Lets just say that the guy has a successful business or a good inheritance. Some cases they give the details to the matrimony websites. Oh as for people who dont know what a matrimony website it. Its like a dating website but you dont have to do anything. Your parents do all the work. Cool na? So for a boy theyll put absolute lies about him. No no its not that the parents are lying. Its that they dont know fully about the boy. Come on. We guy have some 100 secrets. Can you imagine the disaster if they put the proper details of me in a dating website! This isnt much a problem because they mostly check the job, relegion and caste and then whether he smokes and drinks which will obviously be altered. (Do you really think a father will say "you should see my son do a bottoms up with a beer! wow! he makes me look like an amateur!")
So after that they get offers from various other families sending pictures of their daughters. Here comes the best part. The sons parents will start seeing how the girl looks. " Shes not that fair. her nose is a bit big isnt it? Shes looks good but a bit on the chubby side". Theyll be so specific on how the girl looks. I mean come on! your son doesnt exactly look like DiCaprio. Thank god they are not specific with how guys look. Otherwise mankind will be screeewed. Theres also an interesting thing about how they are very specific that the girl is specifically fair in skin tone. they wont be too specific about the others they mostly check that and if the girl is a bit dark the offers for her will go down. Theres another name for that - Rascism! The best part is they barely see looks in guys. When they look at guys theyll be like "hmmm. got a bit of hair. i think itll make it till the wedding. hes a bit fat but a few loose shirts will work. yaaa..good enough for me!"
Now gents we will be given limited access to meet with her. Maybe a few meets here and there like some formal buisness meetings. The only problem is after the marriage next day morning will be the first time youll be seeing her without makeup. Itll be like "Wow. last night was amaz...SWEET BABY JESUS! WHO ARE YOU?!.....oooh...hi honey. hehe. just a joke" (hahaha..make up jokes. they never get old)
Now the one part about how they spend their entired married life happily together i have no clue. Love marriage i get how they are so happy but i dont know about arranged marriage. I believe its a daily intake of morphine or something. Thatll just bring the smile between the ears!
Apparantly i heard girls have a lot of pressure regarding arranged marriages. and again i cant comment on that because i wont know about it properly. For guys its just singing "I got a hot wife without tryyyying! i got a hot wife without tryyying"
Some people will say that "I love my parents. that why i cant fall in love" with anyone".......wait what?? So as if the people who have had love marriage all these years have hated their parents and always wanted to kill them. Thats ridiculous.
We shouldn't blame the parents. Its just that they have this concern for the kids. They scared that they might get hurt from love and all that and so they just want their child to be safe. and that concern just kind off goes crazy. The parents have the rights to check the bride or grooms background and to see if their child will be happy with that person. This got a bit mistranslated all these years and now some now have the idea that love is bad. I mean love is an emotion. Some parents will be like "how can you do this to us? how can you do this to your family?" Come on! Its not like he killed someone! Your making it sound like he kidnapped the full family or something like the jigsaw killer from saw
So all of you who take things in the wrong sense. Let me explain that i am the person who would go for a love marriage instead of an arranged marriage. I mean come on its better to jump into a well than your full family to push you into the well
Now here in India the moooost famous debate of them all is the love marriage arranged marriage debate. Its everywhere. its the most famous of them all. Everywhere girls ask each other that question. This is a really common debate competition topic all over (usually in these cases the guys will be noticing the girls who support love marriage)
So personally i feel i should voice my views to this. I support love marriage. and you aaaall know the reasons. "better being with someone who you know, how can you marry a stranger, love is beautiful, go thundercats!" same shit everyone say. and naturally ill be repeating it. Trust me you dont want to be hearing that again.
Then again i thought to myself why do people get attracted to arranged marriage? Again this is from a males point of view. aI cant say a girls point of view because 1.only a girl can say that properly and 2. im scared of feminists.
What many people dont know is finding a life partner or a soul mate is bloody hard. For the universe to make all cogs work for the 2 of them to meet up and then the fights and then the moment of love to bloom. Yes it is beautiful and worth it but it is pretty tiring. Dont believe me? The show "how i met your mother" that kind of proves my point.
There are many successful billionaires who are still not satisfied with their life because they havent found a person to love. The parents will feel bad and will do their best. Theyll try introducing the son to girls and hope that works out. They cant like get a girl and force her to marry him. i mean noone is that dumb right? hahaha.....oh
*Informercial background music* it is in these moments that we bring to you the arranged marriage!!
Lets just say that the guy has a successful business or a good inheritance. Some cases they give the details to the matrimony websites. Oh as for people who dont know what a matrimony website it. Its like a dating website but you dont have to do anything. Your parents do all the work. Cool na? So for a boy theyll put absolute lies about him. No no its not that the parents are lying. Its that they dont know fully about the boy. Come on. We guy have some 100 secrets. Can you imagine the disaster if they put the proper details of me in a dating website! This isnt much a problem because they mostly check the job, relegion and caste and then whether he smokes and drinks which will obviously be altered. (Do you really think a father will say "you should see my son do a bottoms up with a beer! wow! he makes me look like an amateur!")
So after that they get offers from various other families sending pictures of their daughters. Here comes the best part. The sons parents will start seeing how the girl looks. " Shes not that fair. her nose is a bit big isnt it? Shes looks good but a bit on the chubby side". Theyll be so specific on how the girl looks. I mean come on! your son doesnt exactly look like DiCaprio. Thank god they are not specific with how guys look. Otherwise mankind will be screeewed. Theres also an interesting thing about how they are very specific that the girl is specifically fair in skin tone. they wont be too specific about the others they mostly check that and if the girl is a bit dark the offers for her will go down. Theres another name for that - Rascism! The best part is they barely see looks in guys. When they look at guys theyll be like "hmmm. got a bit of hair. i think itll make it till the wedding. hes a bit fat but a few loose shirts will work. yaaa..good enough for me!"
Now gents we will be given limited access to meet with her. Maybe a few meets here and there like some formal buisness meetings. The only problem is after the marriage next day morning will be the first time youll be seeing her without makeup. Itll be like "Wow. last night was amaz...SWEET BABY JESUS! WHO ARE YOU?!.....oooh...hi honey. hehe. just a joke" (hahaha..make up jokes. they never get old)
Now the one part about how they spend their entired married life happily together i have no clue. Love marriage i get how they are so happy but i dont know about arranged marriage. I believe its a daily intake of morphine or something. Thatll just bring the smile between the ears!
Apparantly i heard girls have a lot of pressure regarding arranged marriages. and again i cant comment on that because i wont know about it properly. For guys its just singing "I got a hot wife without tryyyying! i got a hot wife without tryyying"
Some people will say that "I love my parents. that why i cant fall in love" with anyone".......wait what?? So as if the people who have had love marriage all these years have hated their parents and always wanted to kill them. Thats ridiculous.
We shouldn't blame the parents. Its just that they have this concern for the kids. They scared that they might get hurt from love and all that and so they just want their child to be safe. and that concern just kind off goes crazy. The parents have the rights to check the bride or grooms background and to see if their child will be happy with that person. This got a bit mistranslated all these years and now some now have the idea that love is bad. I mean love is an emotion. Some parents will be like "how can you do this to us? how can you do this to your family?" Come on! Its not like he killed someone! Your making it sound like he kidnapped the full family or something like the jigsaw killer from saw
So all of you who take things in the wrong sense. Let me explain that i am the person who would go for a love marriage instead of an arranged marriage. I mean come on its better to jump into a well than your full family to push you into the well
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